You love a man and wish him to live; you hate him and wish him to die. Having wished him to live, you also wish him to die. This is a case of delusion.
爱之欲其生，恶之欲其死。既欲其生，又欲其死，是惑也。
Source: The Analects, Yan Yuan XII, Chapter 10
Author: Confucius
The Confusion of Passion: To Wish Life from Love, Death from Hate
